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A good one

If you’ve seen my instagram then you all know I’m officially in a relationship with someone and while it’s taken me 31 years to find what I believe to be a “a good one”, I think time will continue to tell me that it was definitely worth every frog I kissed along the way, and then of course every Prince Charming that wasn’t meant to be!!


I want to write about a very special date I went on not too long ago before I met Benjamin, with a very amazing and inspiring guy who I truly look up to in life. I know I often write about the “bad stuff” on here, but ladies there are a lot of good ones left out there as well, and he is one of them.


He taught me some things about how we as women should be respected and honored, and I really really appreciated his respect and his time. He also taught me that good, respectable, handsome, hard working men, do in fact, exist! Though it seems as if they are mythical creatures rarely seen or found, they’re out there!


He drove a long way just to take me out to dinner, pay for my meal, and make me laugh. I remember thinking to myself, what a guy. When he first got there, I got in his truck and there was a bouquet of flowers resting on the dashboard and I remember thinking to myself “those must be for me, but I’m not going to say anything”, which of course, if you know me didn’t last long because before you know I was asking him “who are those flowers for?” And he then he laughingly admitted they were for me and he forgot to give them to me! 😂


He was kind, polite, asked me about myself, told me about himself, didn’t have any sexual expectations, made me feel beautiful, and even though something told me it might be our only date, it was one that I needed to have, so that I could see, not all dates had to be bad, and not all dates had to lead to something and not all guys felt the need to get something from you just because they decided to take you out and buy you a meal.


I remember when we got back to my house, he told me some guys just haven’t matured yet and don’t know how to contain themselves when they are in the presence of a beautiful women, they look at her and they immediately start thinking with the wrong brain because they haven’t learned how to take that energy and let it just radiate to their soul. He didn’t try to do anything sexual with me that night, he came inside and met my sister and made her laugh of course, and when he left he told me again how good of a time he had and how beautiful I was.


It’s very sad to say, but I think he’s the first guy who truly ever made me feel so valued and appreciated on a date, and I’ve been on PLENTY!


If he’s out there reading this somewhere, I just wanted to say, thank you! You made me remember why my boundaries and respect and value for myself are something to be appreciated and that a woman is truly a gift to the right man, and we should be treated accordingly.


Don’t settle ladies, the right one will come along that appreciates and adores you. Wait for him, and hopefully you’ll get to go on some amazing dates with some other amazing guys in the process, who will remind you why you are so worthy to be adored.

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